hello. i am a 28 yr old mother. i was with my x bf for almost four years we had our daughter in 2006. she is now 4 years old. i broke up with him in late 07. because he was controlling and always wanted sexual intercourse from me every single day. i couldnt handle it anymore so i left and moved in with my mother and my two sisters. he wouldnt let me take our daughter with me so i had to go to court finallly got custody and she began living with me. and my x would get my daughter on weekends fri to sun nite. at first everything was fine, then he started dating someone. and he became really out of control with everything. was in and out of courts because him and her would always have to start problems with me for no reason at all. last court date he got custody of my daughter and we both had to take risk assesment test which was 1500 each. and we both had to take drug tests which we both passed and a home inspection wich we both passedwell he of course had the money and i didnt to pay for the risk assesment . and i was only able to see her with supervison of my gmom. it was fri to mon every week, and wed 430 to 7. then after month or so it was to much for my gmom. so she said she could only supervise from sat to sun and weds. so there went all my time with my daughter. :( i can not get her back living with me AT ALL untill i take this risk assesment test. meanwhile,i had a son with my now bf on oct.2.09. so i have been staying home with him since he was born. now my x took me too mediation saying he only wants me having my daughter every OTHER weekend instead of every weekend. i wouldnt agree to that. then he just took me to child support court and i will have to pay him 87 a week, i dont even work and i stay at home with my 11mo old son! i want my daughter back and i dont know what im going to do about getting a job. i dont even have a car. and i def cant afford a sitter. and in mediation there giving me 3 weeks to come up with 1000 to take risk assesment so i can get my daughter in my house and get rid of supervision. HELP :(
